Comments on: my anxiety over wedding planning

By: Helicreature

Helicreature — Fri, 08 Aug 2008 05:46:26 +0000

Well the first thing to say is that you have absolutely exquisite taste, so you are not going to go wrong in that area! but you need to get a wriggle on with organising the purchase of all the dresses if you haven't yet done so.
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By: sandracarroll81

sandracarroll81 — Fri, 08 Aug 2008 01:35:42 +0000

i bet you have every thing covered its just nerves as the day get closer . i hope you have a great day
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By: Katiegirl

Katiegirl — Fri, 08 Aug 2008 01:21:34 +0000

I stressed and stressed over the same things, and what's worse, I stressed out over what people would think about our wedding. My husband and I did everything the way that we wanted to, which is probably why I stressed about other people's thoughts. But here is my point: just enjoy the day. It will be the best day of your life so far, and all the little things that I worried about right up til that day were forgotten when i woke up that morning. Make sure that your day is perfect for you and your husband, and what will make it perfect is you both taking the time to enjoy each other. No one besides you will know if something did not go perfectly. Enjoy yourself!
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By: Anna

Anna — Fri, 08 Aug 2008 01:11:52 +0000

I know exactly how you’re feeling. I was feeling the same way on my wedding day last year (Aug 26th). I, too, have anxiety and really, REALLY don’t like being in front of large crowds let alone the center of attention. However, it wasn’t that bad. I focused on talking with my husband and my matron of honor during dinner. Also, as the majority of our guests hadn’t seen one another in a long time, they were all busy visiting and gossiping with each other so they weren’t watching us like vultures as we ate.
As for the first dance, the main lights were off and the only lighting being used was that which the DJ provided which helped darken the room so that I couldn’t really see the crowd for the darkness! It was a relief. However, the wine that accompanied dinner helped me relax too. hahahaha.
It won’t be that bad. Just focus on the purpose of your special day, you, your husband, and the people you are closest to. You’ll be fine, I promise!

Congrats!!
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By: basketcase88

basketcase88 — Fri, 08 Aug 2008 01:07:55 +0000

OK, I’m hoping you have all these dresses in your possession, and that they’re what you wanted–otherwise I’m afraid THAT will be what goes wrong for you. I’m a bridal consultant, and I really don’t like this trend of buying your wedding dress online, without even being able to touch the fabric, or try it on and see how it looks on you. There is nothing like being able to try the dress on before you buy it.

Having said that, everyone else is right. I’ve been to dozens of weddings over the years, more than dozens, and the common denominator is that SOMETHING will go wrong. You need to give up on the notion that the event will be perfect, because it won’t. You just need to plan carefully enough so that if something does go wrong, it won’t be a big something, but even with careful planning, a big something can go wrong. You have to roll with the punches on this.

I wish you all the best for a wonderful wedding day!
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By: Brandy P

Brandy P — Fri, 08 Aug 2008 00:51:10 +0000

u r forgetting 1 MAIN thing… ur hunny. it sounds like all ur doing is planning not spending quality time with him. u 2 go away 4 awhile & have him help u relax & u help him. hes probably freaking out 2! congrats &luck!
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