how do you get a checklist for planning a wedding?

September 4, 2008




my friend is planning a wedding in two years and the internet is not much help can someone please give me some help for my friend

You can try theknot.com, brides.com or weddingchannel.com.
They have a lot of helpful checklists. The first piece of advice i would give your friend is to figure out your budget and your guest list. Once you have those established it is easier to start planning.
Here is one of the many checklists that i used:
6 – 12 Months Before Your Wedding
____ Visit USABride.com regularly for great ideas & some fun
____ Select a wedding date and time & possibly a backup date
____ Announce your engagement in the paper
____ Plan an engagement party with family and friends
____ Talk with a bridal consultant or wedding coordinator
____ Find out what bridal shows are in the area and plan on attending
____ Agree on a preliminary budget
____ Decide who will pay for what and how expenses will be shared
____ Call your church or synagogue for an appointment with the Officiant
____ Consider and ask friends and family to serve as wedding attendants
____ Start a “planning system” and system of organization
____ Start your wedding guest list
____ Start thinking about ideas/themes for your reception and catering plans
____ Determine what type of entertainment you want to have for your reception
____ Decide the type of wedding you would like to have (size, formality, and setting)
____ Think about your color schemes
____ Explore pre-marital counseling
____ Start health and fitness plan if you’re not already in one!
____ Select your reception location
____ Select your professional photographer
____ Select your videographer
____ Select professional caterer (if necessary)
____ Select Musician or Disc Jockey
____ Select your florist
____ Shop together for your wedding rings
____ Select wedding dress and headpiece, and set a date for fittings and delivery
____ Select your bridesmaids’ dresses and accessories
____ It’s time to choose a honeymoon and location

4 Months Prior to the Wedding
____ O.K., now it’s time to spend some real time at USABride.com; details, details…
____ Check the requirements for marriage license
____ Select and discuss your color schemes with the florist/decorator of choice
____ Again consider pre-marital counseling
____ Reserve your wedding day rental equipment
____ Decide upon a gift registry and select your gift choices
____ Order your invitations and related stationery needs
____ Start shopping for the men’s’ wedding attire
____ Reserve your wedding day transportation
____ Research and select readings for ceremony
____ Make music selections for ceremony and reception
____ Decide upon and order favors
____ Select your baker, then choose your cake, and groom’s cake
____ Help both mothers coordinate and find their wedding day clothing
____ Review your contracts with all of your vendors and service providers (DETAILS!)

2 Months Before Your Wedding
____ Well, at this point you could be writing for USABride.com
____ Have engagement portraits taken
____ Place your engagement announcement in the newspaper
____ Mail out invitations and announcements
____ Decide on the men’s wedding attire
____ Arrange and plan your rehearsal dinner
____ Purchase your wedding day accessories
____ Arrange attendant’s parties
____ Prepare accommodations for out-of-town attendants and guests
____ Consider a hairdresser and/or makeup artist and book appointments
____ Finalize all honeymoon plans

1 Month Left!
____ Final wedding dress fitting
____ Final fitting for your wedding attendants
____ Obtain marriage license
____ Have your attendant’s parties
____ Purchase your going-away outfit
____ Create a calendar of events for the wedding day
____ Make sure your accessories are in order (rings, pillow, garter, etc.)

2 Weeks Remaining!
____ Finalize arrangements with the entertainer(s)
____ Provide a list of music you would like played (or not played)
____ Make sure they fit!
____ Contact the guests who have not responded to your invitations.

1 Week to Go!
____ If you can, take the week, or part of the week off from work!
____ Make sure your marriage license is in order
____ Prepare seating arrangements, if necessary
____ Purchase travelers checks, confirm honeymoon reservations
____ Pack your baggage for your honeymoon
____ Have your wedding ceremony rehearsal
____ Instruct your wedding party on what they will be doing on the day of the wedding
____ Have your rehearsal dinner
____ Make sure all wedding attire fits properly
____ Give the best man the amounts your vendors are to be paid on the wedding day
____ Inform your caterer of the total guest count
____ Confirm out-of-town guests have transportation and sleeping accommodations
____ Check with your florist and/or balloonist to make sure they will arrive when scheduled

Your Wedding Day

____ Your primary goal today is to get married! Have fun! Forget about USABride.com!
____ Relax, enjoy yourself, and remain calm!
____ Allow at least two hours for dressing
____ Allow plenty of time to apply your makeup and style your hair
____ If professionals are doing your hair and/or makeup, determine the time they need
____ If photographs are to be taken before the ceremony, allow plenty of time for that!
____ Remember to bring the rings and marriage license
____ Seat guests as they arrive
____ The groom’s parents should be seated about 5 minutes before start time
____ Mother of the bride is normally seated last
____ Take a deep breath, don’t worry, be happy and smile!

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  1. 6 Responses to “how do you get a checklist for planning a wedding?”

  2. TheKnot.com is really great. Sign up for any account, input your wedding date and they give you a month by month checklist.

    It's very helpful.
    References :

    By Moi on Apr 17, 2008

  3. theknot.com It has a complete checklist of what you need. I am getting married in 3 weeks and I used it for my wedding. Hope this helps. Good luck.
    References :

    By Just Because on Apr 17, 2008

  4. You can try theknot.com, brides.com or weddingchannel.com.
    They have a lot of helpful checklists. The first piece of advice i would give your friend is to figure out your budget and your guest list. Once you have those established it is easier to start planning.
    Here is one of the many checklists that i used:
    6 – 12 Months Before Your Wedding
    ____ Visit USABride.com regularly for great ideas & some fun
    ____ Select a wedding date and time & possibly a backup date
    ____ Announce your engagement in the paper
    ____ Plan an engagement party with family and friends
    ____ Talk with a bridal consultant or wedding coordinator
    ____ Find out what bridal shows are in the area and plan on attending
    ____ Agree on a preliminary budget
    ____ Decide who will pay for what and how expenses will be shared
    ____ Call your church or synagogue for an appointment with the Officiant
    ____ Consider and ask friends and family to serve as wedding attendants
    ____ Start a "planning system" and system of organization
    ____ Start your wedding guest list
    ____ Start thinking about ideas/themes for your reception and catering plans
    ____ Determine what type of entertainment you want to have for your reception
    ____ Decide the type of wedding you would like to have (size, formality, and setting)
    ____ Think about your color schemes
    ____ Explore pre-marital counseling
    ____ Start health and fitness plan if you're not already in one!
    ____ Select your reception location
    ____ Select your professional photographer
    ____ Select your videographer
    ____ Select professional caterer (if necessary)
    ____ Select Musician or Disc Jockey
    ____ Select your florist
    ____ Shop together for your wedding rings
    ____ Select wedding dress and headpiece, and set a date for fittings and delivery
    ____ Select your bridesmaids' dresses and accessories
    ____ It's time to choose a honeymoon and location

    4 Months Prior to the Wedding
    ____ O.K., now it's time to spend some real time at USABride.com; details, details…
    ____ Check the requirements for marriage license
    ____ Select and discuss your color schemes with the florist/decorator of choice
    ____ Again consider pre-marital counseling
    ____ Reserve your wedding day rental equipment
    ____ Decide upon a gift registry and select your gift choices
    ____ Order your invitations and related stationery needs
    ____ Start shopping for the men's’ wedding attire
    ____ Reserve your wedding day transportation
    ____ Research and select readings for ceremony
    ____ Make music selections for ceremony and reception
    ____ Decide upon and order favors
    ____ Select your baker, then choose your cake, and groom’s cake
    ____ Help both mothers coordinate and find their wedding day clothing
    ____ Review your contracts with all of your vendors and service providers (DETAILS!)

    2 Months Before Your Wedding
    ____ Well, at this point you could be writing for USABride.com
    ____ Have engagement portraits taken
    ____ Place your engagement announcement in the newspaper
    ____ Mail out invitations and announcements
    ____ Decide on the men's wedding attire
    ____ Arrange and plan your rehearsal dinner
    ____ Purchase your wedding day accessories
    ____ Arrange attendant's parties
    ____ Prepare accommodations for out-of-town attendants and guests
    ____ Consider a hairdresser and/or makeup artist and book appointments
    ____ Finalize all honeymoon plans

    1 Month Left!
    ____ Final wedding dress fitting
    ____ Final fitting for your wedding attendants
    ____ Obtain marriage license
    ____ Have your attendant's parties
    ____ Purchase your going-away outfit
    ____ Create a calendar of events for the wedding day
    ____ Make sure your accessories are in order (rings, pillow, garter, etc.)

    2 Weeks Remaining!
    ____ Finalize arrangements with the entertainer(s)
    ____ Provide a list of music you would like played (or not played)
    ____ Make sure they fit!
    ____ Contact the guests who have not responded to your invitations.

    1 Week to Go!
    ____ If you can, take the week, or part of the week off from work!
    ____ Make sure your marriage license is in order
    ____ Prepare seating arrangements, if necessary
    ____ Purchase travelers checks, confirm honeymoon reservations
    ____ Pack your baggage for your honeymoon
    ____ Have your wedding ceremony rehearsal
    ____ Instruct your wedding party on what they will be doing on the day of the wedding
    ____ Have your rehearsal dinner
    ____ Make sure all wedding attire fits properly
    ____ Give the best man the amounts your vendors are to be paid on the wedding day
    ____ Inform your caterer of the total guest count
    ____ Confirm out-of-town guests have transportation and sleeping accommodations
    ____ Check with your florist and/or balloonist to make sure they will arrive when scheduled

    Your Wedding Day

    ____ Your primary goal today is to get married! Have fun! Forget about USABride.com!
    ____ Relax, enjoy yourself, and remain calm!
    ____ Allow at least two hours for dressing
    ____ Allow plenty of time to apply your makeup and style your hair
    ____ If professionals are doing your hair and/or makeup, determine the time they need
    ____ If photographs are to be taken before the ceremony, allow plenty of time for that!
    ____ Remember to bring the rings and marriage license
    ____ Seat guests as they arrive
    ____ The groom’s parents should be seated about 5 minutes before start time
    ____ Mother of the bride is normally seated last
    ____ Take a deep breath, don't worry, be happy and smile!
    References :

    By April B on Apr 17, 2008

  5. There are so many of them! Try this one:
    http://nuptia.ca/budget-planning/wedding-planner/the-wedding-checklist.html
    References :

    By Gabby on Apr 17, 2008

  6. theknot.com
    weddingchannel.com
    brides.com
    References :

    By Sunshynebeams on Apr 17, 2008

  7. I used http://www.ezweddingplanner.com

    Hope this helps!
    References :

    By Proud to be 51 on Apr 17, 2008

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