What Is Your Dream Wedding?
November 1, 2008
Now that you are engaged it is time for you and your fiancée to sit down and discuss what kind of wedding you two envision. Just because you love each other, it doesn’t mean that you agree on what kind of wedding would be your dream wedding.
If you have always dreamed of being the princess walking down the aisle treated like royalty, a traditional wedding is for you. But, if your fiancée wants to get married scuba diving instead, you two have a lot to talk about. Even though you two may not agree, you have to keep discussing your options. Many grooms don’t want to be bothered with wedding planning because they are not heard. If you want your fiancée to get involve, treat him like an equal and the help and feedback you receive may surprise you.
Whatever your decision may be you two have to feel good about it. Your wedding should be personalized to your desires. You two have to communicate clearly and openly about what is your dream wedding and why. You two have a common goal that is to get married, how you get there is your decision. Make a list of ideas that are important for you and see how you can incorporate them into your wedding day. Before you start working on the details, you should individually write down the most important ideas to make sure neither one of you is pressured into omitting anything important.
Throughout history, many of the decisions about the details of the wedding were up to the parents. Today, while parents are usually part of the process, they are not decision makers. If you want your parents to pay for your wedding, you are going to have to give them a lot more decision-making power than if you and your fiancée are paying for everything.
Once you get married you will become a team, so it makes sense to work as team planning your wedding. There are good and dysfunctional teams; you have the power to become an effective team. Regardless, the size or style of your wedding, you and your fiancée has to work together. The more effective you work together, the more fun you will have planning your big day.
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2 Responses to “What Is Your Dream Wedding?”
How do i set up a webpage to drag and drop pictures to design your own dream wedding?
I know there has to be a way to do this, but i just don't know how. What i need help on, is how to have a picture of all our wedding supplies on the right side of the screen and drag and drop them to the middle of the main picture (a picture of the church/location that will be used mabe on the top of screen or somthing) so that my customers could plan out there dream wedding and send it to us OR so they could make several "what if" or "quote" weddings (for pricing purposes) . It is an idea i had and i think it will go over very well. It can help our customers have an idea before we meet in person. Please any help on this well be much appericiated. Thank You in advanced.
By looking_for_help on Nov 1, 2008
The chances of you getting some shrink wrapped code to do this for you is fairly remote. Whilst the idea is simple in concept, the execution will be quite intensive. I don't think this is the right forum.
Essentially you need a page that connects to a database or product store to display available information. Drag and Drop routines to move items from one panel to another (Prototype, EXT-JS or dojo probably work best here) and then you would need to save these preferences to a database etc. This will involve a fair bit of programming. Maybe best to hire a developer and get a quote or advertise for some student labour to look at it for you.
Something like this example might be a good starting point:
http://extjs.com/deploy/ext/examples/view/chooser.html
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By Klausy on Nov 1, 2008